Sunday, September 7, 2008

MOVING ON,AFTER THE HURT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

A single comment,a single incident,a single gesture has the potential to radically change our perception about somebody and influence even a long-standing relationship.
BUT PAUSE A BIT to ponder over the causitive factor behind the act.It may be just casual without any specific meaning attached.Do not let it linger on.If hurt,we need to clarify and move on.
A TRU FRIEND OR ACQUAINTANCE values u and would never hurt u.If not,he is not worth ur concern.Better for u to get over the hurt and move on in life.Continuing would mean sacrificing ur self-esteem which i believe is of paramount importance to our existence. 
Remember,everything has a specified span.When time's up,get up and move out.There are more opportunities waiting for us to sparkle and learn from.Be upbeat and receptive.Let ur receptors pick up the signals and read the fine-prints.     

1 comment:

James said...

That post certainly made me think. A few times I have caused hurt to those closest to me with an unthinking phrase or being angry at something else then taking it out on the wrong person. Who knows what damage we do?

Thanks, James